Ah I look to you for straight talking and you are going to get all metaphysical with me haha!! What is this you are saying: outside the box and but there is no box?? ahhhhh.. you can be certain you are not being brainwashed by this here L Ron Hubbard book you been reading cos boxes and no boxes sound like culty talk haha.. take my hand I will rescue you from these people get you to safety..The obvious answer is not to follow the herd. But it isn't really correct as there are so many people not following the herd they create their own.
The secret is not develop a mind set that lets you think outside the box.
But realising there is no box.